it somehow hadn't even occurred to me that the video would have been circulated, but of course it totally could and probably would have. It's always made me cringe a little to think about that possibility-
That's the NC-17 dilemma. You write about this moment and if it's done well it gets inside of the character well enough to expose her relationship to herself as well as others and always reveals a relationship to power at that time. And then people read it as porn where something 'hot' is the prevailing criteria. Often the reason people who refuse to write NC-17 just don't want to have this carefully crafted intimate moment being used to perv. So I guess I'm glad the thought of the vid being distributed makes you cringe.
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That's the NC-17 dilemma. You write about this moment and if it's done well it gets inside of the character well enough to expose her relationship to herself as well as others and always reveals a relationship to power at that time. And then people read it as porn where something 'hot' is the prevailing criteria. Often the reason people who refuse to write NC-17 just don't want to have this carefully crafted intimate moment being used to perv. So I guess I'm glad the thought of the vid being distributed makes you cringe.